1. lacigreen:

    eviljohnlock-shipper:

    Gender is more then just “boys have a penis and girls have a vigina”.

    In popular imagination, gender is a 2-category system.  If you have a penis, your gender is “boy”; if you have a vagina, your gender is “girl”.  This system is factually false and laced with sexism.

    In lived reality, gender refers to how we see ourselves.
    How people see and identify themselves (gender identity) is variable and intrinsic.  In most cases, gender identities do not fit completely into the 2-category system (the gender binary).  This is because many of the attributes of these 2 categories are not mutually exclusive.

    ∴ Owing to its high level of variability, gender is an ineffective way to categorize people.  Biological sex (genitalia), while still highly varied, conveys much more stable categories.  However, categorizing people by their biological sex is only helpful in health/body contexts (medical care, reproductive services, body-specific clothing, etc) because biological sex says nothing about a person’s gender identity.

  2. "The only reason “coming out” is still even a thing is because it’s presumed that people are straight until they tell us otherwise. “The Other must identify itself, or else it is decieving us” is a fucked up, dangerous idea."
    Unknown (via lavenderlabia)
  3. erosum:

    Feminist Frequency - Tropes vs. Women: #1 The Manic Pixie Dream Girl

  4. anorable:

    true fact

  5. "There are times when a feeling of expectancy comes to me, as if something is there, beneath the surface of my understanding, waiting for me to grasp it. It is the same tantalizing sensation when you almost remember a name, but don’t quite reach it. I can feel it when I think of human beings, of the hints of evolution suggested by the removal of wisdom teeth, the narrowing of the jaw no longer needed to chew such roughage as it was accustomed to; the gradual disappearance of hair from the human body; the adjustment of the human eye to fine print, the swift, colored motion of the twentieth century. The feeling comes, vague and nebulous, when I consider the prolonged adolescence of our species; the rites of birth, marriage and death; all the primitive, barbaric ceremonies streamlined to modern times. Almost, I think, the unreasoning, bestial purity was best. Oh, something is there, waiting for me. Perhaps someday the revelation will burst in upon me and I will see the other side of this monumental grotesque joke. And then I’ll laugh. And then I’ll know what life is."
    Sylvia Plath, The Journals of Sylvia Plath (via anorable)

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